I was not bowled over when a close friend of mine excavated a trivial shortcoming in my appearance, and asked me to don some sassy outfits in her company. Peering at myself from head to toe, I observed a plain combination of shalwar-Kameez over my petite physique, while my feet were enclosed in a pair of locally manufactured sneakers.
“While in Rome, do as the Romans do.” I endeavoured to remind her that we were the students of a government university and if I displayed enterprise in being different or in more eloquent words “better” in appearance than the general masses, it might turn out to be counter-productive for me. Alas! Trying to make a point before a rigid audience is akin to bashing a skull made of steel with a steel rod.
Unjust criticism and conceding to a shallow approach has somehow become the norm of the society in which we dwell. One can invariably find prickly cynics sitting right outside our doors, prepared with their “sarcasm drenched” bow and arrow. It is true that all criticism is not bad; it is only the “unjust” aspect of this particular practice that inflicts wounds upon our sensitive senses. “You are wrong”, “ It shouldn’t have been done”, “she is this and he is that”,” What did you do?” etc are a few arrows that pierce our fragile bodies everyday. Similarly the innate tendency of being vindictive to some extent drives us to settle scores and in this manner we inadvertently become a part of its evil ramification.
There was a time when I allowed myself to be affected by these poisonous arrows, but then I came across the following quotation:
“Unjust criticism is often a disguised compliment. Remember no one ever kicks a dead dog.”
God bless the soul of the man (or woman) whose philosophical faculties reproduced such balmy words. They sufficed to elevate me from my desolate mental state and I learnt a valuable lesson. Now I await the enunciation of an unjust remark as it provides me with an opportunity to “Thank” my tormentor and forsake him in a state of bafflement. Hark! Stop being offended anymore. Don’t forget that there is always something good in our actions that are being criticized. BY SUMMIYAH MALIK. (NEXT TIME IF SOMEONE TELLS YOU THAT PAKISTAN IS THIS AND THAT.....BE HAPPY)
Sunday, December 28, 2008
NO ONE EVER KICKS A DEAD DOG !!!
I was not bowled over when a close friend of mine excavated a trivial shortcoming in my appearance, and asked me to don some sassy outfits in her company. Peering at myself from head to toe, I observed a plain combination of shalwar-Kameez over my petite physique, while my feet were enclosed in a pair of locally manufactured sneakers.
“While in Rome, do as the Romans do.” I endeavoured to remind her that we were the students of a government university and if I displayed enterprise in being different or in more eloquent words “better” in appearance than the general masses, it might turn out to be counter-productive for me. Alas! Trying to make a point before a rigid audience is akin to bashing a skull made of steel with a steel rod.
Unjust criticism and conceding to a shallow approach has somehow become the norm of the society in which we dwell. One can invariably find prickly cynics sitting right outside our doors, prepared with their “sarcasm drenched” bow and arrow. It is true that all criticism is not bad; it is only the “unjust” aspect of this particular practice that inflicts wounds upon our sensitive senses. “You are wrong”, “ It shouldn’t have been done”, “she is this and he is that”,” What did you do?” etc are a few arrows that pierce our fragile bodies everyday. Similarly the innate tendency of being vindictive to some extent drives us to settle scores and in this manner we inadvertently become a part of its evil ramification.
There was a time when I allowed myself to be affected by these poisonous arrows, but then I came across the following quotation:
“Unjust criticism is often a disguised compliment. Remember no one ever kicks a dead dog.”
God bless the soul of the man (or woman) whose philosophical faculties reproduced such balmy words. They sufficed to elevate me from my desolate mental state and I learnt a valuable lesson. Now I await the enunciation of an unjust remark as it provides me with an opportunity to “Thank” my tormentor and forsake him in a state of bafflement. Hark! Stop being offended anymore. Don’t forget that there is always something good in our actions that are being criticized. BY SUMMIYAH MALIK. (NEXT TIME IF SOMEONE TELLS YOU THAT PAKISTAN IS THIS AND THAT.....BE HAPPY)
Saturday, December 27, 2008
Who's more Racist ?
Who's more racist?
By Hamza Ahmed Khan
You've often heard of the word racism - and it's connection with the whites and the Asians/Africans/blacks/Pakistanis. On too many occasions, we see people bleating about how our nation is a victim of racism from the outside world, specially the West. Too many times, you see people frothing spit in anger at how we are looked down at, treated with disdain.
I've been observing this for a fair bit of time and I can't help being disgusted by the hypocrisy of it all. When was the last time we did not think about the racial background of a person while dealing with them? Punjabi, Bengali, Pakhtun, Sindhi, isn’t this how we categorise each other? Shia, Sunni, Bohri, Parsi isn't that how we are divided? Isn't it just absolute fun to snigger at a peculiar accent?
It'll be easy to scoff at all these scandalous accusations, because they come from the pen of a person who drives the point home.
Let's face it, we all are racists of the highest degree. In our minds, racism only exists between the WEST and US! It doesnt occur to us that when we laugh at the way someone talks or cringe at someone's looks or their skin colour, we ARE being racists. We have a tendency to listen with open ears to a person who's speaking good English. There's a general unconcious assumption that speaking fluent English automatically grants you a 160 + I.Q! Pakistanis tend to be intimidated and over-awed when confronting a local who's jabbering away in rapid English. Our accents, our dialect: changes. Turning our faces into dismissive walnuts, we suddenly start waving hands to look more impressive.
Now let's look at the role the media plays. We wake and sleep with ideas that our media feeds us. If you're a girl, you BETTER be Snow White if you wanna get married. If you're a guy, having a clean shave (The West look) would give you the best chicks. White and ONLY White is the acceptable colour. Does it occur to us how racist a nation we are? We ridicule our own people, our own colour, our own clothes, and our own ethnicity - in short a nation overwhelmed by an acute inferiority complex; a nation desperately trying to act, sound and live like the West!
The accent issue is something which concerns the youth the most. I've never understood why it is embarrassing or funny if someone speaks in a different accent. The day we realise that an accent is not a fault, but a representation of a part of our country, a symbol of the diversity of our culture and simply....natural, we would stop being condescending towards them. There's nothing cool about me if I can communicate in good English. What's the big deal if my accent sounds acceptable when I blurt out some English words? Why shouldn’t a person having a Punjabi, Sindhi or let's say a Memon accent be respected for the idea they have? The problem: we have grown far too ignorant and intolerant to think seriously about these issues.
Each one of us takes pride in the community we represent. We want to belong. Somewhere or the other, we just want to be part of a club. There was ample evidence of that in the recent elections. We are more patriotic about our preferred parties than about Pakistan. Quite frankly, I've never seen Pakistani flags adorned with the same passion that I saw people adorning their respective party flags, shouting Siraiki, Muhajir, Sindhi and Pushto slogans. Outrageous slogans telling our own people that OUR SPECIFIC community is different and SO MUCH BETTER than yours. Isn't this racism?
I walk around my campus; I move in different circles. And ... I see naked revulsion and contempt in the eyes of students, for people who are either dark and greasy, or lack the Tom Cruise/Kournikova looks, or are simply un-cool by their standards. Accept it or not, inside every one of us knows that even if to a minor extent, shades of racism exist in our own self. The sub-continent is the only place where I have seen open and un-censured mockery of fat and black people. Fat and Black looks so offensive the way I blurted the words out, doesn’t it? Isn’t it sad that it doesn’t look a bit offensive when films are shown where these people are openly ridiculed to make other people laugh?
We judge people by a criterion that should be the most irrelevant. THIS is racism. Our battle for supremacy over each other has drifted us apart and I fear, if not resolved sooner ... we'll be diving headfirst into a deep abyss.
I think it's high time we learn to differentiate between what's natural and what's fake. What is US and what is THEM. What we will ALWAYS be and what we can NEVER be. Most of all, we must embrace our culture and respect what we are. Only then, can we rise as a proud nation. Only THEN, we hold the right to complain against racism from the WEST, only then.
MRP: PEACE MISSION
Sunday, December 21, 2008
A Call for DUTY
Address to Civil, Naval, Military and Air Force Officers of Pakistan
Government at Kahliqdina Hall, Karachi on October 11, 1947
The establishment of Pakistan for which we have been striving for the last ten years is, by the grace of God, an established fact today, but the creation of a State of our own was means to an end and not the end in itself. The idea was that we should have a State in which we could live and breathe as free men and which we could develop according to our own lights and culture and where principles of Islamic social justice could find free play.
I had no illusion about the hard work that awaited us and the difficulties that had to be overcome. I was, however, fortified by the knowledge that I could count upon the unstilted support of all Muslims and also the minorities whose co-operation we could win over by fair --nay, generous-treatment.
Unfortunately, the birth of Pakistan was attended by a holocaust unprecedented in history. Hundreds of thousands of defenseless people have been mercilessly butchered and millions have been displaced from their hearths and homes. People who till yesterday were leading a decent and prosperous life are today paupers with no means of livelihood. A good many of them have already found asylum in Pakistan but many more are still stuck up in East Punjab awaiting evacuation. That they are still on the other side of the border is not due to the fact that we have been unmindful of their sad plight. The evacuation of these unfortunate persons has been our first concern and everything that is humanly possible is being done to alleviate their suffering. As you are aware, the Prime Minister has shifted his headquarters to Lahore and we have set up an Emergency Committee of the Cabinet to deal with the situation as it develops from day to day.
The disorders in the Punjab have brought in their wake the colossal problem of the rehabilitation of millions of displaced persons. This is going to tax our energies and resources to the utmost extent. It has made the difficulties inherent in the building of a new State; I referred to earlier, manifold. Are we going to allow ourselves to be overwhelmed by the immensity of the task that is confronting us and let our new-born State fonder under the cruel and dastardly blows struck by our enemies?
This is challenge to our very existence and if we are to survive as a nation and are to translate our dreams about Pakistan into reality we shall have to grapple with the problem facing us with redoubled zeal and energy. Our masses are today disorganized and disheartened by the cataclysm that has befallen them.
Their morale is exceedingly low and we shall have to do something to pull them out of the sough of despondency and galvanize them into activity. All this throws additional responsibility on Government servants to whom our people are looking for guidance.
I know that during the past few weeks, anxiety about the safety of your kith and kin in East Punjab, Delhi and other disturbed areas of India has been weighing on the minds of most of you. Lots of you and your staff have suffered bereavements in the recent holocaust and have lost valuable property. My heart goes out in sympathy to those who have suffered bereavements and I pray to God Almighty that He may give them fortitude to bear their losses with courage.
But are all these sacrifices, which we have been called upon to make to be in vain? Are we going to sit down and mope over our losses? If we do so, we shall be behaving just as our enemies want us to behave. We shall be playing their game and will soon be suppliants for their mercy. The fitting response to the machinations of our enemies would be a grim determination to get down to the task of building our State on strong and firm foundations, a State which should be fit for our children to live in. This requires work, work and more work. I fully realize that a majority of you have worked under a terrible strain during the war years and might need relaxation. But you should remember that for us the war as not ended. It has only just begun and if we are to fight it to victory, we shall have to put in super-human efforts. This is not the time to think in terms of personal advancement and jockeying for positions. It is the time for constructive effort, selfless work and steadfast devotion to duty.
This being the need of the day, I was pained to learn that a good many of our staff are not pulling their weight. They seem to be thinking that now that Pakistan has been achieved they can sit back and do nothing. Some of them have been demoralized by the happenings in East Punjab and Delhi, and in other, the general lawlessness prevailing in some parts of the country, has bred a spirit of indiscipline. These tendencies, if not checked immediately, will prove more deadly than our external enemies and will spell ruin for us. It is the duty of all of you who have gathered here today to see that this cancer is removed as speedily as possible. You have to infuse a new spirit in your men by precept and by example. You have to make them feel that they are working for a cause and that the cause is worth every sacrifice that they may be called upon to make.
God has given us a grand opportunity to show our worth as architects of a new State; let it not be said that we did not prove equal to the task.
Another question that has been agitating my mind is the treatment of minorities. I have repeatedly made it clear in my utterances, both private and public, that we would treat the minorities fairly and that nothing is farther from our thoughts than to drive them away. I, however, regret to say that the minorities here did not give us a chance to prove our bonafides and give us their wholehearted co-operation as citizens of Pakistan when the crises suddenly overtook us. Before we could assume the reins of office, non-Muslims started pulling out of Pakistan, which, as subsequent events have proved, was part of an well-organized plan to cripple Pakistan. But for a few sporadic incidents here and there, nothing has happened to mar the peace of Sindh, but despite the prevalence of peaceful conditions here the exodus of Hindus continues. Some have given way to panic and others have been leaving Pakistan in the hope that it will be paralyzed economically and socially. A lot of migrants are already realizing the folly of their rash act and leaving the country of their birth or domicile but some interested parties persist in encouraging migration which is fraught with grievous consequences for the migrants and also does harm to our State in the process.
It is true that there was some trouble in the NorthWest Frontier Province and Baluchistan, but it was not the outcome of any premeditated plan. Some excitable elements in society were carried away by tales of woe brought by refugees from the East Punjab; and sought solace in revenge which was definitely against our policy and contrary to our express instructions to our people that there should be no relation. Whatever has happened cannot be justified.
I am, however, glad to say that this trouble was short lived and the situation was soon brought under control.
In West Punjab, things were rather different. It was nearer the scene of carnage and so could not escape the contagion. Regrettable incidents have no doubt taken place there but the arm of the law is again asserting itself and things are returning to normal.
When I turn my eyes to the sister Dominion of India, I find that the Muslim minority there has suffered grievous wrongs. Not content with having uprooted Muslims from East Punjab, certain sections in India seem to be determined to drive Muslims from the entire Dominion by making life impossible for them. These helpless victims of organized forces feel that they have been let down by us. It is a thousand pities that things have come to such a pass.
The division of India was agreed upon with a solemn and sacred undertaking that minorities would be protected by the two Dominion Governments and that the minorities had nothing to fear so long as they remained loyal to the State. If that is still the policy of the Government of India --and I am sure it is --they should put a stop to the process of victimization of Muslims which, if persisted in, would mean ruin for both the States.
My advice to my Muslim brethren in India is to give unflinching loyalty to the State in which they happen to be. At the same time, they should reorganize themselves and create the right leadership, which should give them the correct lead in these perilous times. I further hope that the Government of India would see that their fair name is not sullied by ill-advised action on the part of those who are bent upon the eviction or extermination of Muslims of India by brutal and inhuman methods. If the ultimate solution of the minority problem is to be mass exchange of population, let it be taken up at the governmental plane, it should not be left to be sorted out by bloodthirsty elements.
As regard the Government of Pakistan, I again reiterate with all the emphasis at my command that we shall pursue our settled policy in this respect and we shall continue to protect the life and property of minorities in Pakistan and shall give them a fair deal. We do not want them to be forced to leave Pakistan and that so lone as they remain faithful and loyal to the State they shall be entitled to the same treatment, as any other citizen shall.
It is the duty of Government servants, who are responsible for enforcing the policy of Government, to see that this policy is scrupulously carried out so that we may not throw ourselves open to the charge that we do not mean what we say. It is you who can convince the man in the street of the sincerity of our intentions and I am confident that you would not fail us.
Pakistan Zindabad
Friday, December 19, 2008
The root cause
Sunday, December 14, 2008
PEACE WALK
Ok Friends. Here is the big NEWS. MRP will be organizing a PEACE WALK soon. (date will be announced, in the coming MRP Meeting), in collaboration with other Associations, Organizations, NGO’s, and councils. The OBJECTIVE of this PEACE WALK, is to prove the world, that we are not a DIVIDED NATION. We are ONE NATION, under ONE FLAG. We are a peace loving and TRUE NATIONALIST. We don’t care, who you are, what race, religion, region, color, ethnicity, cast, province, age group you belong to at the end of the day the thing that matter is that we are all PAKISTANI’S. And we are the NATION, Nation of sensible, peace loving, caring people. Though we have different cultures, languages, races, religion, believes, but when it comes to PAKISTAN, we are all ONE, just one and i.e. PAKISTANI. It’s a PEACE MISSION, and we believe, we want every single Pakistani should be part and parcel of this Mission Rescue Pakistan’s PEACE MISSION. MRP, next meeting will be held soon, in which all the participants will be briefed about the PEACE MISSION, and duties will be allocated respectively. PEACE MISSION, venue, date, timings and other details will be discussed in the meeting. We appreciate your presences in the meeting. Regards, FAWWAD AFRIDI.
Saturday, December 13, 2008
CAN WE GIVE A CALL TO OUR CABLE OPERATORS?
We all know that INDIA is ruthlessly using its media to defame PAKISTAN. After the Mumbai attacks, they mistreated our celebs to the extent that they had to abandon their projects and return. They are even persecuting local Muslims. The Indian government has undone almost everything that had slightly abated the tension between the people of these two countries. To bring to notice INDIA HAD LONG BANNED THE TRANSMISSION OF PAKISTANI TV CHANNELS!!!! Indian people and their government stand united on this stance. But unfortunately, the cable operators in Pakistan are showing Indian channels. Geo tv even telecasted INDIAN FILM AWARD SHOWS on EID DAY. .... right when the rivals were bringing forth forces on our borders!!!!
CAN'T WE LIVE WITHOUT STAR PLUS AND SAHARA ONE? CAN'T WE PAKISTANI'S STAND UNITED AND TELL OUR CABLE OPERATORS TO STOP SHOWING THESE CHANNELS? We certainly don't want to watch these trashy channels. When our local cable operators will STOP showing these channels, media giants such as GEO tv etc will realize that when it comes to the INTEGRITY OF PAKISTAN, our citizens do not give a damn to whether Amitabh Bachan gets an award or not. Please request your cable operators to stop showing these channels because we do not want to see them while flipping through 99 other options. Sumaiya.
Thursday, December 11, 2008
Wednesday, December 10, 2008
FEAR
Most Pakistani's might not be suffering from Hepatitis as much as they are suffering from "fear". Fear of being mugged in the streets, fear of being kidnapped, fear of robbery, fear of being deceived and cheated by fellow citizens, fear of downfall of this country, fear of losing what we have toiled so hard to attain... we even fear the police!!!!! As mentioned by the the anonymous blogger before, we need to change our mind sets, our thinking and our approach towards such matters. Is there a way to alleviate/abate or lessen the intensity of this fear that has crept inside our thinking patterns? or in other words... is there even a possibility?
Sumaiya
Monday, December 8, 2008
Wednesday, December 3, 2008
Blogger Required for MRP Blog
eK Pakistani
Sunday, November 30, 2008
CALL for PEACE WALK
Thursday, November 27, 2008
Next MRP Activity
- New Year Ball (Probably a Corporate Ball), i guess it will be Moharaam, so we can either execute it before Moharram or right after Ashura
- Walk for A cause
- Institutional Awareness & Activity Promotion of MRP, in the educated circles of Civic Society
- Seminar on Social Issues & Awareness
- Concert with Local or Intl' Artist
PLEASE JOIN US:
Though the organization is based in KARACHI, MRP intends to incorporate all Pakistani's in its mission. Citizens who are living in other provinces can join MRP. Pakistani's living abroad are also more than welcome to be a part of this citizen owned, NON-POLITICAL welfare group. Join us today!
Tuesday, November 25, 2008
MRP TEAM MEMBERS
Any Pakistani who wants to contribute to the society and make a difference can be a part of MRP. Simply email your name and contact number to Fawwad Afridi at info@missionrescuepakistan.com
Come and be a part of MRP!!
Monday, November 24, 2008
MRP: Objectives
Mission Rescue
Why do we make promises every time? Why can’t we take an initiative?
To put them in a laymans term:-
To help the less privileged people of
To create Awareness and Nationalism amongst the Nationals and
To give people a reason to live a respectful life
To start, we will be soon be organizing a “Walk for a Cause” and at the same time will also be doing two environmental activities to support City District Government
Though we couldn't get much donation yesterday, but I loved being with the group. Everyone was so lively.... full of enthusiasm.
Rabeeta lost her glasses :-p ..... hota hai... koi baat nai. Personally I found Mishal to be very sweet.
I know that MRP will go a long way and it will be a big success someday. :) INSHALLAH
Thank you Fawwad bhai! I deeply appreciate your efforts. There is a long gap between intention and action. Most people lose themselves in that gap, but you managed to cover it and we are all able to be a part of an organization, which is one of it's kind. :)
Sumaiyah Malik.
Member MRP.

